tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-64516340594914279842024-03-13T14:06:08.044-07:00Bollywood @prashantsawant.comBollywood wisdom for corporate worldPrashant Sawanthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10794408791223805481noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6451634059491427984.post-32308033426264928762016-01-15T21:59:00.000-08:002016-01-15T21:59:30.004-08:00<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Listening skills...<br />
The most important skill one should possess, if one wants a successful & satisfied life journey is, " Listening skill".<br />
God has given us 2 ears & 1 mouth, hence we should follow the same pattern of listening double & talking half.<br />
Most of the time, people get into sticky situation by the pearls of wisdom they spew from their mouth.<br />
In the movie " Munnabhai MMBS", very well directed by Raju Hirani, in one of the scenes where Sanjay Dutt along with Arshad Warsi & few goons, go to the medical college to take admission for Sanjay's medical degree dream.<br />
They are told by one young parsi Dr that one has to get good percentage in XIIth exam & also one needs to clear the medical entrance test to get admission in medical college.<br />
Arshad asks him , " Tumne yeh exam diya tha?"<br />
The Dr ideally should have said "YES" only , but the motor mouth adds saying " meine toh isme top kiya tha".<br />
This extra pearl of information puts the Dr in trouble as the goons kidnap his father & ask him to appear for medical entrance test on behalf of Sanjay Dutt.<br />
Hence talk less. Talk only when you can better the silence.<br />
Listening is different from hearing.<br />
In hearing, your ears come to know about the words uttered but in "Listening" your soul comes to know about the meaning of the words uttered.<br />
The best way of giving respect to someone is to "Listen".<br />
Most people think that the definition of "Listening " is " waiting for my turn to talk ".<br />
Amitabh had once said that you don't need to worry about acting . If you focus & listen to what the other character is saying , your subconscious mind will control your body in such a responsive way that audience will clap for good acting.<br />
In any relationship, listening is of paramount importance.<br />
When people fight they say he doesn't listen to me. Eg parents. Why can't they say i don't listen to him & that is crux of all relationship challenges.<br />
Listen & Be Delighted .......<br />
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